Divorce is Traumatic!

Stop denying the traumatic effects of divorce on the entire family. Start learning ways to increase cooperation and prevent your child from the mental health and behavioral conduct problems that high conflict creates. Stop focusing on what your ex is doing and concentrate on the tools you can use to build resiliency and hope. Start learning how to be "willing and able" to co-parent today.

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Do you want to become allies instead of adversaries?

* Co-Parenting Quadrant (D. Stacer, 2015)

What type of co-parent are you? What type is your ex? Are you both willing and able to parent cooperatively, let go of past resentments, work in the best interest of your child, and stop paying thousands of dollars in court fees?

You are "willing and able" to parent cooperatively if you...

  • Communicate with my ex about parentings concerns without the use of "family wizard" and legal involvement.

  • Never slander the other parent in front of the children.

  • Encourage the children to have a safe and health relationship with the other parent.

  • Let go of resentments and anger to make a decisions that is agreeable to both parents.

  • Allow the other parent to parent in their own way and allow my child to have relationships with other people, include step parents and siblings.

  • Find creative ways the meet the needs of the children in the best way possible.

  • Can handle upsetting information about the other house without raging and threatening to call the lawyers!

  • Have children who feel comfortable talking with all the adults in their lives and can honestly report that "My parents are friends!"

Are you willing to learn and try?

Discover QUICK conflict resolution skills, how to determine what is in the best interest of your child, develop new tools for cooperative parenting, and stop the hurt and loss:

    1. Your Commitment to being "Willing and Able" Starts Now...

    2. What is the "best interest of the child"?

    3. Divorce Trauma! It's real for everyone...

    4. If the other parent is NOT Willing! Here’s what you can do…

    1. What is a Co-Parenting Plan?

    2. The Seven Steps of Co-Parenting Negotiations

    3. 5 Quick Ways to Resolve Conflict

    4. Saying "I'm Sorry" (it's not a weakness!)

    5. Find the "Best Interest" with "Common Ground"

    6. Co-Parenting Requires Risk...And Reward

    1. Co-Parenting Styles Quiz: Are We Willing and Able?

    2. Co-Parenting Styles Quiz PDF (Download and Score)

    3. Tips for Successful Co-Parenting: The Co-Parenting Quadrant

    4. Co-Parenting Styles Infographic

    5. Daily Co-Parenting Scale (Self-Awareness of Cooperation)

    6. Co-Parenting Isn’t Working? Try Parallel Parenting

    7. Healing the Wounds of Divorce

    8. Helping Children Transition Between Homes

    9. Six Parenting Truces for Divorced Families

    10. Setting Appropriate Boundaries

    11. Co-Parenting With A Partner With Addictions

    1. Reconnecting with Your Estranged Child

    2. Parental Alienation Syndrome

    3. Are Dads As Important As Moms?

    4. Grief Process Worksheet

    5. Four Goals of Children's Behavior

    6. Basic Parenting Plan Template

    7. My Changing Family (How to Communicate with Kids)

    8. Parenting Worksheet: Who Am I and Who Is My Child?

    9. All About Me Exercise 1

    10. All About Me Exercise 2

    11. The Conflict Resolution Workbook

    12. The Communication Workbook

    13. Emergency Contact List

    14. Medical Release Form

    15. My Co-parent is a Narcissist: Able but NOT Willing

    16. Glossary of Terms

    17. Two Houses Art Worksheet

    18. RESOLVE: Conflict Resolution Model

    1. Major Models of Clinical Resources

    2. Reunification Therapy Overview

    3. Parental Alienation Survey

    4. Parental Alienation Survey PDF

    1. What is Your Parenting Style?

    2. What's Your Parenting Style (Quiz)?

    3. Parenting Differences: Attract and Annoy!

    4. Developing a Relationship "Roadmap"

    5. REST Marriage Conflict Worksheet

About this course

  • $99.00
  • 56 lessons
  • 1 hour of video content

Co-Parenting that is Attachment-Based...

High-conflict parents who are not "willing or able" to cooperate may create insecurely attached children. Parents who are aware of their own attachment patterns are better able to break generational cycles and promote more empathic, resilient famlies/children.

Co-Parenting that is Trauma-Informed...

Ron Huxley is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 30 years of experience working remotely on the Central Coast of California. Ron provides trauma-informed and attachment-based therapy and education. Being trauma-informed means that parents may have their own history of trauma. Trauma-informed practices recognize how early life incidents can negatively impact individuals' life and functioning. Co-parenting information that is trauma-sensitive breaks generational trauma, decreases triggering and reduces emotional reactivity.

How can you benefit from Co-Parenting Counseling?

Co-parenting counseling can offer several benefits, including:

  1. Improved communication: Co-parenting counseling can help parents develop effective communication skills to handle conflicts and negotiate parenting decisions.

  2. Better understanding: Counseling can provide a safe space for parents to understand each other's perspectives and feelings.

  3. Better relationships: Co-parenting counseling can help improve the relationship between parents, leading to a more positive and supportive co-parenting experience.

  4. Increased empathy: Counseling can help parents see things from their child's perspective and increase empathy towards their co-parent.

  5. Improved well-being: By improving the co-parenting relationship, co-parenting counseling can lead to reduced stress and improved well-being for both parents and children.

  6. Better outcomes for children: Children of co-parents who participate in counseling tend to have better outcomes, including improved mental health, academic performance, and behavior.

How does Co-Parenting Counseling work?

Co-parenting counseling typically involves a trained therapist who meets with both co-parents to discuss and address their challenges in co-parenting. The counselor may use various techniques and strategies, such as active listening, empathy building, conflict resolution, and problem-solving, to help co-parents improve their communication and relationship.

During the sessions, the counselor may encourage the co-parents to discuss their concerns and goals, work through conflicts, and develop a plan for more positive and effective co-parenting. The counselor may also guide how to manage common co-parenting issues, such as disagreements on discipline or schedule, and help co-parents develop a parenting plan that works for their family.

The number of sessions required for co-parenting counseling can vary, depending on the specific needs of each co-parenting relationship. The goal of co-parenting counseling is to help co-parents learn how to work together as a team and provide a supportive environment for their children.

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Instructor(s)

VIP Private Coaching & Training Ron Huxley, LMFT

Ron Huxley brings over 30 years of expertise in trauma therapy as a coach and training. Reach out today at [email protected] or visit RonHuxley.com to explore his comprehensive coaching, teaching, and training services. His individual coaching sessions are tailored to your unique growth strategy, ensuring a personalized experience that fosters your development. Additionally, Ron offers organizational training that combines education with engaging experiences designed to enhance team dynamics and understanding of trauma-informed care. Let's connect to discuss how we can customize trauma-informed training specifically for your needs.